Joy for the
By: Angela Lee Kwan
I can't honestly say that I feel qualified to elaborate on the contributions the Lung Kong Tin Yee Association has made to the Houston community; however, I do feel confident describing a more personal and heartfelt impact that the LKTYA has had on the most intimate and most important community of all ‑ my family, one relative in particular.
My grandfather has lived a happy, healthy, and prosperous life. He may not have ever been famous or rich, but he has accomplished more than most. At his old age, and with my grandmother in Heaven, I think he gets very lonely, as difficult as it is to admit. The sad truth is both my parents work; my siblings are married; and I go to school in Austin, but when I am in town, I try my best to keep him company. Home alone all day, he usually spends his time exercising his arms and legs; he also enjoys cooking, especially snow peas and pig feet. Although he doesn't watch much television, his favorite programs include the news, The Price is Right, wrestling, and westerns. I don't intend to sound disrespectful by any means, but he leads a very mundane life.
In fact, he
rarely leaves the house on a regular basis except to cut his hair or go to
Wal‑Mart and the Chinese grocery store; he is so adorable with his
predictability because he always has the exact same list of things to buy.
Generally, he insists on staying home ‑ I think because he deems it too much
of a hassle to leave the house. Oftentimes, my family will eat out with my
mom's relatives, but my obstinate grandfather refuses to come because for
some absurd reason, he's under the impression that he isn't invited, when of
course, he is.
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